Baby Wakes Up Every time I Lay Her Down

Posted on: August 15th, 2017 by Violet No Comments

Baby Wakes Up Every time I Lay Her Down

baby wakes up every time I lay her down

You’ve just spent the last little while rocking, nursing, and putting your baby to sleep. Your arms are at breaking point, and you’re ready to put her down.

You slowly tip toe over to the crib trying to make as little movement or noise possible, and place baby into the crib, holding a few seconds before gently sliding your arms out from beneath her.

You step away, hold your breath and within second’s of putting baby down, baby screams and wakes up. Uh, oh, back to square one!

 

A baby waking up just when you’ve put them down can be so disheartening and frustrating for any parent, especially if you’ve been dying to use the bathroom, grab a bite to eat or get on with the house chores.

Some day’s we feel incredibly patient and don’t mind giving our baby a little extra attention, and other days, patience is limited or we may not have time to spend playing the sleeping game.

What should I do to make sure baby doesn’t wake up?

Making sleep time a happy time for both parent and baby makes the game a whole lot easier to play and keeps the patience levels high.

Babies are smart, playful, and they innocently want attention. If they can cry and know you you’ll continue holding them forever, they’ll take it, again and again.

Sometimes they’re not playing games but are trying to communicate with us in the only way they know how, by crying.

Here are a few tips:

Understanding your baby’s sleep pattern

A baby’s sleep pattern is different than adults, it can take about 15-20 minutes for a baby to fall into a deep sleep. This means that until then, your baby can be easily disturbed and wake up, so you’ll either need to wait till she fully asleep or put her down before that. Putting your baby when she is in deep sleep is typically only recommended when she is a newborn and is struggling to sleep. Once your baby gets older if she is put to sleep, she will expect that when she wakes in between sleep cycles. This leads to frequent night wakings. Which brings me to my next point…

Put baby down drowsy but awake

Your baby is all cozy and warm, nestled in the comfort of your arms as you rock or breastfeed them. So, you can imagine the sudden shock they may have as soon as you put them down onto the cold hard bed. Putting baby down drowsy but still awake is a great way to avoid your baby from waking up as soon as you put them down. It also avoids the sudden shock of abandonment, and they’ll most likely feel more comfortable in the long run.

Teach your baby to self-soothe

There comes a point where teaching your baby to self-soothe, especially in the middle of the night, becomes essential to avoid mommy and daddy from burn out. Self-soothing doesn’t mean you should leave them to cry for hours on their own. No, it’s a totally different concept, and you can certainly comfort your baby while helping her self settle with the right methods and techniques.

How do I teach my baby to self-soothe?

Sounds simple, right? Unfortunately, it’s not. However a baby falls asleep either at naptime, bedtime, or during night wakings, is how he/she will expect to go back to sleep when she wakes in between sleep cycles and has a hard time settling. Helping your baby learn to fall asleep independently is by no means easy to accomplish and is one of the hardest parts of sleep training. But it is extremely rewarding since it results in restful, consolidated, and restorative sleep for not only your baby, but you too!

After your baby has passed the newborn stage and has become a bit more independent realizing that they are no longer in mommy’s warm dark womb, they can be shown how to self-soothe.

It’s hard to find out what your baby likes and dislikes or to feel like you’re teaching them to something and not abandoning them. However, once mastered, you’ll find that teaching your baby to self-soothe can be extremely helpful when it comes time to bedtime.

Because this is not an easy task, I’ve taken the time to put together some successful sleep consultation packages, tailor-made to suit your baby’s individual situation and background.

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